How you can use positive words of encouragement with kids to help them create a positive mindset and work on their mindfulness skills.
Words have the power to both energise and deflate children, which is why choosing good things to say to your child is so important.
What are you going to put in their bucket?
If you tell a child they’re bad, they’ll be awful. If you tell a child they’re good, they’ll do the same.
You can begin to fill that bucket with love, generosity, positivity, and confidence by thinking some encouraging words for kids or good phrases to speak to your child.
It is undeniable that when children experience warmth and affection from their parents, it has a long-term impact on them.
As adults, they acquire healthy self-esteem, are emotionally happier, and are less worried.
So let’s get started: let’s shower our children with love, use positive language, boost family communication, and empower our children with a bucket of love and support!
benefit of using encouraging words for kids
Instead of barking, consider saying, “Come help empty the dishwater— right now!” “You are a very helpful person; thank you for helping me unload the dishwasher!” you could say.
Isn’t there a change in tone here?
These encouraging things to say to kids can be sprinkled throughout your day in a variety of ways.
The kind of praise we offer our children inspires, empowers, and influences them later in life, according to research.
- It aids in the development of a positive outlook in children.
- Creates a safe and nurturing environment at home
- Boosts self-esteem and encourages children to believe in themselves.
- Encourages imagination and creativity.
- Encourages children to work harder (have you considered making a chore sheet for children?)
- Improves children’s self-esteem
- Perseverance, self-confidence, and determination have an impact.
Tips on using positive phrases for kids
When speaking positively to your child, experts recommend doing the following:
- Say their name, this gets their attention
- Don’t speak over the child
- Use eye contact
- Get down on their level
- Be sincere and be honest
Get Specific: Instead of saying “good work, buddy,” try “the way you shared that toy with Tommy was incredibly compassionate.” Being overly broad does little to assist a child in determining how their efforts resulted in a good grade.
Focus On Effort: We teach kids a growth attitude when we say good things to them that emphasise effort. They can then piece together how their effort contributed to their achievement, as well as how they can better without feeling like a failure if they didn’t succeed.
Give Just Enough Praise: Giving undeserved praise to children might have long-term consequences. Don’t praise people who don’t deserve it; it’s counterproductive. Overpraise reduces motivation and can lead to the development of narcissistic children, according to research.
Practicing encouraging Words At Home
- Choose one phrase to say each night before going to bed. (Plus, if you pair it with one of these 5 mindfulness practises, you’ll score even more bonus points.)
- If you’ve had a quarrel, say something uplifting out of the blue.
- Use lunch box notes to keep in touch with your child during the day (even if you aren’t present).
- Play games and color books like this that promote awareness.
- Get down on your child’s level and tell them something specific that you admire about them.
positive words of encouragement for Kids
- You are loved
- You make me smile
- You are SO intelligent
- I think about you ALL the time
- You can be a great leader
- I’m glad you’re here
- You can tell me anything
- Your choices matter
- You are kind
- I love spending time with you
- My world is better with you in it
- You are beautiful!
- I know you will do GREAT things
- You are special
- Your honesty makes me so proud
- It’s fun to do things with you
- Follow your heart
- Wow, what a thoughtful kid you are
- I believe in you
- You mean the world to me
- I love you!
- I’m grateful for you
- I need you!
- You are amazing!
- I will always be here
- Your laugh is one of the best things about you
- The world needs you
- You are gifted!
- I am proud of the person you are becoming
- I am so proud of you
- I will love you no matter what
- You are unique!
- Tell me about what you are doing
- Just keep going and keep trying
- Not giving up is one of your best traits
- Participation and effort are more important than winning
- Don’t give up, and start what you finish
- The view from the top is spectacular
- You can ask for help
- If you believe it, you can achieve it
- Your mistakes are chances to learn
- Reach for the stars
- You are unstoppable
- Challenges make you stronger
- Make an effort, NOT an excuse
- Think before you act
- Follow your dreams
- Don’t think too much
- This feeling will pass
- Work towards solving problems
- Take a break and come back to it
- I love seeing you work together
- What you are feeling is normal
- Go play!
- You can always try again
- You don’t always need to win
- It’s okay to feel scared, it’s okay to feel sad, and it’s okay to feel angry too
- Everyone worries sometimes
- Nobody is perfect, and that is ok
- You are MORE than your emotions
- Everyone feels upset sometimes
- Have fun!
- Trust your instincts
- Don’t be afraid
- In time, you will feel better
- Enjoy the moment!
- Don’t worry, be happy
- Let your mind settle, like the sand in the ocean
- You will feel better after you get some rest
- You will get through this
- This is not the end, but the beginning
- You have a kind heart, so always be kind, no matter what.
- Not all days are bad
- You got this!
- The sun will come out tomorrow
- You can’t always make everyone happy
- Stay positive, keep dreaming
- Life is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you’re going to get
- Nothing call dull your shine: you are beautiful inside and out.
- Get back up!
- You are strong
- Always help those who need it
- Pause, breathe, everything will be okay
- Tell me something that made you smile today
- I believe in you.
- Be honest, even if you mess up!
- I see you working really hard
- Thanks for being a great helper
- You are one smart cookie
- There is only one you, so be yourself
- You can say no!
- You are growing
- You are learning
- I’m proud of you
- I believe you, I believe in you
- Your ideas matter
- I am curious, what do you think?
- Let’s try it your way.
- You are a good boy/girl
- You don’t always need to follow the crowd
- Treat others the way you want to be treated
Make an effort to incorporate these nice things to say to your child into your daily conversations. Positive words and phrases can and will have a significant impact on your children. Words have the ability to take your child high into the sky, allowing them to dream big and achieve anything!
Words matter, so how will you use them today?
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